Crossroads – Issues for Guys
4-23-08
• Phatheads DVD Clip
• Announcements
o Compassion Child
o Summer Youth Camp
o Tonight’s & Next Week’s Lesson
Issues for Guys – this week
Issues for Girls – next week
Important for both the guys and the girls to understand each others
perspective on the issues of dating
• Praise & Worship
o Let the Praises Ring
o Here I Am to Worship
• Opening Question
o What’s the most beautiful thing you have ever seen?
Or at least one in your top five?
• Slice of Life: Prom Scheme DVD Clip
o What makes this a difficult situation for each of these guys?
o Girls – are you amazed that this conversation is taking place
between these two guys? Why or why not.
• Tonight’s Topic – Issues for Guys
o This video clip will show two different young men with two very
different problems and how they handled each problem.
• Issues for Guys DVD Clip
• What does the Bible say?
o I Corinthians 6:12-20 NIV
12 "Everything is permissible for me"—but not everything is beneficial.
"Everything is permissible for me"—but I will not be mastered by anything.
13 "Food for the stomach and the stomach for food"—but God will destroy them both.
The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body.
14 By his power God raised the Lord from the dead, and he will raise us also.
15 Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ himself? Shall I then
take the members of Christ and unite them with a prostitute? Never! 16 Do you not
know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said,
"The two will become one flesh." 17 But he who unites himself with the Lord is one with
him in spirit. 18 Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside
his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body. 19 Do you not know that
your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God?
You are not your own; 20 you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body.
• Breakout Time
o Guys to the Fireside Room.
o Girls stay here.
• Final Scripture Thought
o 2 Timothy 2:22 NIV
22 Flee the evil desires of youth, and pursue righteousness, faith, love,
and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart.
• Closing Prayer
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